Intercultural Marriages

Nowadays, intercultural marriages are very common. Thanks to the Internet, student exchanges, business travel, expatriations, etc., more and more people have the opportunity to meet and share their set of values and beliefs. The Internet has become a worldwide marriage agency. Unfortunately, finding a place in the "significant other's" culture and traditions can be tricky and not always easy to deal with.

Nevertheless, goals, values, vision, attitude, love, and strong communication systems are the main keys to finding your "happily ever after" ending. Keeping in mind that it is not what you say, but how you say it, you are off to a great start.

How could you deal with the particular situation you are facing now? Is there a way out of it without destroying your couple or your already fragile relationship?

The answer is: of course there is!

The fact that you are reading this article proves that you are looking for a solution. Otherwise, you would be looking into a lawyer's or dating website, wouldn't you?

Looking for and focusing on solutions, rather than keeping your troubles in mind, is an excellent starting point. The first step towards success is the will and desire to work together as a team.

Now, let's get into business:

1. What were the common points that first drew you two together?
2. What are those things you both enjoy doing?
3. From 1-10, what is your level of commitment to your relationship? (1 being very low and 10 being very high)
4. What are you both ready to do/try (or give up) in order to preserve what you have?
5. Are you in love with your partner or with the idea of living together and having a couple?
6. Do you have any idea of what triggered the conflict between you two?
7. In those aspects of your life where tension is very high, what is the middle ground where you can both be at ease?

Let these questions settle first and take a few minutes to give them a deeper thought.

Once you have found the answer to these questions, start by planning your new "couple's rescue mission". It does not matter how fantastic it may sound now, as long as you are both happy and willing to commit to it. Perhaps it is also a good time to set new goals for you as a couple. For example, traveling to an exotic place you are both happy to visit, renovating something in the house, meeting new people, practicing a sport together, finding "self-time" for you as a couple or individually, etc... Keep in mind that goals are supposed to be set into the future, and the past is only allowed as a reference at this moment,-only if it will bring positive outputs.

You want to reshape your situation, not erase it!

At the very beginning, you jumped into your current relationship aware of certain facts that made you different. Despite that, you decided to go ahead and be successful. Why? Because you were determined to make it work, had a vision and the desire to conquer love and create something that seemed special at that time. You were excited about all that made that special person be who he/she was.

Now, use the same determination to erase/put aside those "cultural discomforts" and reshape them into points of commitment where you are both satisfied without removing your roots.

Be aware that all this "remodeling" will need a lot of patience and understanding, good communication, and a gigantic mountain of love. It is not a battle for right or wrong. Your other half is your partner, not your opponent. 

You are both working on reshaping a better and brighter future. Take your time to put each detail into practice and just enjoy the process. I can guarantee it will bear fruit at the speed you are hoping for. Use the best of each world to make a unique place for you.💕

Every couple is different from another, so avoid comparing yourselves. You are unique. One small piece of advice: for the time being, hang out with other couples that will help your relationship feel stronger, people who will encourage you and will not take sides with either of you.

Go back to your dating times as a couple and start enjoying the simple things life has to offer. (Candlelight dinner, walks, cycling, picnics, open-air activities, movies, etc) Be creative and resourceful.

Be open in communicating your feelings and how situations make you feel. situations, not your partner.

Make a written list of those things that you believe to be particularly difficult for you as a couple. Talk about the points-without getting into details-, decide which is the easiest one to solve and focus on that one only. Once solved, move to the next point and so on. There is no limit to the time between each point. Are these points or some of them limited to you as a unit or the consequence of exterior influence? (parents, siblings, place related, friends, work).

Work first on those issues that are exclusively related to you as a couple before you move to those involving third parties.

Keep in mind the basic rule: your limits + his/her limits-your gray area = commitment.

Enjoy this challenge. It is a new adventure full of wonderful surprises, as you will rediscover your partner and yourself all while working and settling into this new stage in life. 😊

Different Cultural Meet in My Travel

It is always exciting for me to meet people from different cultural backgrounds. It always thrilled me to learn about the culture of people I met from the different parts of the world. In my stay here in Indonesia, I am very lucky to have stayed in a guest house that caters all migrants from other countries. It is very important also to learn to speak their language. Even a basic understanding of another language can help build bonds with people who speak another language. Concentrate on learning the languages and learn how to speak proficiently. You'll be able to have conversations with new friends in a language they feel most comfortable speaking.😊

When you interact with people of varied cultural backgrounds, it gives you an opportunity to enhance your verbal communication skills. The more comfortable you are in communicating with others, the more doors are open for you in your personal and professional life. Every time we collaborate ideas with other people, we also learn from them. Sometimes we are too preoccupied with our own world that it's nice to hear differences in opinion and other perspectives. It's really amazing to learn something from other people whether it's intended or unintended, the result is the same. You are able to broaden your horizon and widen your perspectives.

Be open and kind to all the people you meet. Being nice to everybody and willing to learn about new experiences help you make new friends wherever you go. Never judge other people because their experience is different from yours. Try to find something that you can have in common to relate to the person. You can ask them about their lives and you can also share the things that you're interested in. Never come off as condescending or rude to anybody. Keep yourself open to great possibilities. And it's always great to make a new friends by being the first to open the conversation.

When you are around with new people, you can come alive with new creative ideas to learn from about your life. Having a strong network of people who are experts in different fields is an awesome experience! Because when you need something, it's always a good thing to have trusted people to lean on. The person next to you might be the one you need right now or could be in the future. Meeting people from around the globe is a very exciting and fun experience for me. It broadens my perspective of the world.

Latest Indian Traditional Saree for Party Wear

Indian Traditional wedding party wear saree with heavy motif and zari work, This saree is in Dark yellow and brown color. As This saree has Yellow color so will have good impression in Mehndi Party. This saree has a beautiful belt of chain.

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Beautiful Traditional dark green saree in silk for day parties wear. this saree has simple designs of motif and have a nice golden gota style.


This saree has a beautiful round neck blouse in sleeveless style with colorful saree pallu. This saree has also beautiful draper style lehnga.



Nice dark cyan color saree as Traditional cultural style with a beautiful silver gota style. The saree pallu has nice motif floral and leaf style.


Its a bridal parties wear saree in cultural traditional style with heavy motif and zari work on saree pallu. The saree pallu has also beautiful wide gota style as border.




Nice Indian bridal wedding wear saree in cultural traditional collection. the saree blouse is in sleeveless style with heavy motif and mirror work. Saree pallu is in sparking golden style and saree lehnga is in dark green style.


Nice traditional party wear saree in sparking orange color with sparking gota liens border style.

Indian Cultural Saree for Parties

Indian Cultural Saree with beautiful "W" style Lines in white color. The Saree Pallu is decorated with beautiful Silver Gotta in floral style. The Saree blouse has a gorgeous neck style in straight style and half sleeve style. Saree Lehnga is in beautiful draper touch. This Saree design is taken from Indian Cultural Mahrani saree style.


Very Costly Saree for Indian Mahrani Girls with beautiful color and Shawal style Pallu. The Pallu of the Cultural Saree is extra wide and decorated with beautiful and zari and Motif designs.


Fantastic combination of black and sparking golden colors in cultural Saree for parties wear. The saree Blouse is in black color, Simple and half sleeve style. But the Saree Pallu is decorated with beautiful black Vector floral style. The Saree Drape is in beautiful and tall draper style. The saree will be a fantastic party wear Saree in traditional style.


Mughal style Saree in Resham with colorful textures and Floral Vectors. The saree Blouse is decorated with beautiful zari and motif style but the Saree Pallu is in Maroon color with colorful Vectors. The Draper Saree has a beautiful border with motif work. This Cultural Mughal Saree is designed for High Society Party wears.

Ivory color Saree in Silk with beautiful small black dots and Vector floral style border in Dark Maroon and black color.


Dark Green Saree with Dark maroon border. The Saree is decorated with zari and motif work. That Indian Traditional style saree is designed for Mehndi parties, Shaadi, wedding Parties, Diwali parties or walima parties or such different parties.


Beautiful colorful saree with color mixing. The saree Blouse is in simple round style in half sleeve style and saree pallu has a beautiful Gotta border.


Very Costly but deserve. This saree Pallu has beautiful Vector floral design with light yellow background but the border is in Dark Slate Gray color with gorgeous designs the pallu has also beautiful gotta, mirror, zari and Motif work on pallu as Square style design. The saree Blouse is in round but little baggy and half sleeve style.

Beautiful and latest Indian Cultural Dresses

These are all Indopak (Indian and Pakistani) Mughal Cultural Salwar kameez. these kameez is design with Costly Material like Motif and Zari designs and designed like a Ladies Kurti Style. The Mostly Mughal ladies used Churidar pajama. This churidar pajama is Old Fashion but yet so Famous Style.

Beautiful Indian Cultural Salwar kameez with beautiful floral style kameez and beautiful churidar pajama style salwar. and dupatta is in Net floral style. This Salwar kameez style was mostly used by Mughal Family (Old IndoPak Royal Family).


Nice Indian Cultural Salwar kameez in beautiful Neck design and non sleeve kameez style is looking beautiful in Churidar pajama.


Indian Old Cultural Salwar kameez with Gorgeous and beautiful large Motif and zari Neck design and looking more beautiful in Churidar pajama style Salwar


Indian Old Cultural Salwar kameez, the Kameez is in Green color with beautiful neck design in Collar bane style, the Kameez is Decorated with Golden Floral Dots with Green Background and nice churidar pajama.


Nice Sober Indian Cultural Salwar kameez with beautiful neck design in Collar bane style and kameez is in colorful floral background.


Nice Indian Mughal style Salwar kameez with nice neck design and Tareez style kameez looking more beautiful in Churidar pajama.


Mughal style kameez in Golden background and Black floral designs with beautiful black churidar pajama.


Nice Pakistani Cultural Salwar kameez like Pakistani Heer style salwar kameez because of of its beautiful neck design and nice kameez style.


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Indian Cultural Salwar kameez with net arm style and beautiful neck design and net dupatta style.


Cultural Salwar kameez with beautiful colorful neck design like a Sindhi Cultural Neck design is looking beautiful in cream color background and Maroon Churidar pajama.


Mughal Cultural Salwar kameez with nice and beautiful neck design and beautiful black Churidar pajama style salwar.


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Chinyere Mughal couture '09 Collection

Chinyere start to Start to Work on Mughal and Cultural Style fashion dress with costly work on Kameez and dupatta like motif and zari floral and different new designs let see...

Its a Beautiful and costly Mughal Style Salwar kameez with beautiful Mughal style designs on borders and neck with Beautiful Motif and Zari work in this salwar kameez, Salwar designs is Churidar Pajama Salwar style. and kameez is in Full sleeve style designs.




Beautiful Indian Mughal Style Dress like Anarkali Gown Style Kameez in colorful designs with Motif designs and Salwar is very widely like Lehnga designs.


Mughal Style Salwar kameez with beautiful Motif Neck design and kameez is looking more beautiful with Churidar Salwar designs. its a Mughal cultural style salwar kameez.


Beautiful Anarkali Gown style kameez with beautiful blouse style neck design in beautiful motif style neck and looking Gorgeous with Churidar Pajama. Mostly Anarkali Suit or Mughal design is looks beautiful with Churidar Pajama Salwar designs.


Beautiful Mughal Style kameez in Motif and Zari Design on Kameez one is Being focus that this kameez is design has Collar Bane which looks more beautiful and instead of Salwar here Lehnga is used as a Salwar designs.


Cultural Salwar kameez with V style neck design and full sleeve kameez design kameez is decorated with beautiful Motif and Zari work and Salwar is in Fitted style like a Trouser style.


Its a Cultural Kameez style mostly in Punjab Villager (you ever seen in Heer Ranjha Film). In Punjabi Cultural Yet this design is Used like in Parties, Mehndi or Wedding Functions. Here kameez is Decorated with Motif floral Design and instead of Salwar Lehnga style (Dhoti) is used.


Its a Indian Cultural Lehnga style with beautiful motif and Liens border with Beautiful Dupatta style Here blouse is also decorated with Floral Motif and Zari Designs.

Cultural Bridal Fashion Dress

Fahad Hussayn has introduced limited collections about bridal wears, its Jewelry, Make up and styles also in Nur-Bai collection. These designs are cultural and looking so beautiful for brides. It's Bindiya, Necklace, wedding ring and dress also. Let see some designs........

The bride has Beautiful Salwar kameez, The Dupatta has beautiful floral designs with nice lance border. Kameez is in half sleeve style.


In this dress the bride has patiala salwar with beautiful kameez style. The patiala salwar is looking gorgeous for brides.